Things to take care about, When you are in Love

Now you are in love right? Feeling that surge of Dopamine, feeling excited. We all feel that once in our lifetime irrespective of Age or Gender. We have felt that on our first love or after meeting that girl in you team. Now that you got your Prince Charming or you have finally proposed your crush and she accepted(congrats :) ). Here are few things to keep in mind whether its your first Love or a true love after some Relationships its for all of you.

1. Trust

"Trust" the foundation of all relationships. Trust is a must have component or behavior in a relationship whether its friendship or love, when relationships lacks Trust then they are vulnerable to breaking and are fragile because when a trust issue happens, although the person might forgive you but you can't gain their trust back because "Once a plate is broken, its impossible to make it good as before" so if you don't trust the person enough maybe its not time for getting into serious relationship, and if you are in a relationship so be true in those aspects you think are gonna hurt them when they get to know from other people. You should go and tell them yourselves.

2. Past is Gone

Many relationships suffer due to something happened in past, We all got one be it good or bad, it can be anything your Ex or any event or some action. Not that its anyone's fault that happened but people feel so guilty and bad about it they usually try to forget it and never tell their partner so as to not bring the topic or you might have actually forget it. But eventually he or she comes to know and that's when the real pain comes in. They feel like they have been betrayed that they were just and loyal to you or but you didn't tell them. They think you didn't think of them qualified enough to know but actually it was just a bad experience. Yeah it might have been a very serious issue or they might have done something that bad they themselves are so guilty. But now, Now that you are in relationship(or about to) you should let them have their past. If they forgot to tell you, just forgive them because its already a huge deal for them to tell you that and if you get angry or something its gonna make them feel worse. So let go of the past and live in present.

3. Don't Play Games 

No, I don't meant that board games and fun. The games we are taking about are Relationship games. "well, if I won't talk to her she'll be more attracted to me" or "if I'll reply late he'll be left wanting more", No! these are good only for fun if you are not serious, but if you are serious about your relationship you shouldn't be playing games because when they are gonna know that you were free and didn't replied or you are just not talking to her without any issue, mark my words its gonna hurt them the worst. They will start blaming themselves and maybe start distancing from you because they will start thinking that they aren't a good choice for you

4. Express What You Feel 

Yeah you got that right, when you love someone from the bottom of your heart, try to know what is his/her love language that is what they values the most whether its quality time, getting gifts or anything else. The point is to make him/her feel special whenever you can, this will deepen the relationship while giving you some best moments in life.

5. Nothing is Permanent

Yeah that's true everything you have, everyone around you, are gonna end someday. Nothing is eternal and that's the sad truth of life. When someone walks out of our life we feel miserable we start questioning ourself, when a friendship or a relationship comes to an end we all feel bad, because its human nature but we should keep in our minds that it was destined to happen one day. We cannot stay forever eventually we all have to part be it alive or after death.

6. Moving On

Not that moving out of relationship is a good thing but sometimes it so happens that we are unable to hold it or the other person is not interested, you should consider moving on but formally not cheating and that sort of thing you should discuss it out even if its a college relationship. BUT before moving out you should try all the possible method to fix things between you, sit down and discuss why is that happening what is the root cause, is it lack of quality time or you are not feeling valued. just try to fix it. but if its finally end then you should end it formally, without hatred, without guilt.



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